First, check out Part 1: Confidence is sexier than any lingerie.
1. Au-naturel is sexy
Don’t be afraid to ditch the makeup, sweatpants, hair up. It makes them that more gaga for you when the time comes to get all glammed up. I once had a guy tell me about the “spread” or a number 1-10 on the difference between how a woman looks when she wakes up in the morning to what she looks like all dolled up (obviously, the smaller the spread the better). Only extreme a-holes think this way, I hope.
2. Men are very visual-and simple creatures.
But they only have eyes for you. Not your sister, your best-friend, or the sexy bartender. Sure- they’re human and can’t help glancing at other women, but it’s nothing. Until they give you a reason to distrust them, don’t. Don’t back them into a corner with the “Do you think she’s pretty?” question. There really is no right answer to that one if the answer is yes.
3. Men like to cuddle too.
It doesn’t always have to lead to sex. (Although it won’t be turned down). If they like you enough to stick around, waiting won’t matter to them. And the best part of sex? Feeling wanted by you.
4. Men like a women who eats.
So skip the skimpy salad. Go for the steak. Order that dessert. We know you want it!
5. They don’t want you to be their mother.
It’s not your job to hold his hand. That’s just plain obnoxious. If you attempt to control him, he will surely pull away.
6. Men love our flaws.
And hate when we put ourselves down. In their eyes, you are the most beautiful, sexy woman they have ever been lucky enough to be with. They believe that or wouldn’t be sticking around. If we tell you, you look great, don’t argue by pointing out all your flaws. Chances are they hardly notice them.
7. Men lie…for the good of the relationship.
Of course they’re not going to tell you if you look fat in the dress. Same goes for if they’d rather be watching the big game than out with your friends.
8. Men don’t want to be rushed into talking about “us”
That’s what your girlfriends are for. They will talk about their feelings when we are ready. Don’t pressure them, they will resent you for that.
9. Men want you to like, but not love their friends.
Don’t try to work overtime to win their friends over. He wants your energy focused on him and only him, not what other guys think of you.
10. Laugh with him- and at him.
Nothing hotter than a girl with a sense of humor. The perfect way to diffuse awkward situations, find common ground, and get comfortable with him.